The year was 1968. There was a war
going on in Viet Nam. The war touched
many lives. I was touched by a brother
sent to serve. He constantly wanted to
hear from family back in the United States.
From the time I wrote him, he constantly pleaded not to stop
writing. I guess it is that way with any
soldier sent off to a far off land. He
wants to hear from someone in his beloved states. I can imagine the home sickness that
comes. When off to college, I pleaded
for mail and I was just 40 miles away.
I wrote my brother
every chance I got. My letters said
little of nothing, but probed to satisfy him.
In appreciation, for which he did not have to do, he went to the PX and
sent me home a gift. It was a Marine
bull dog. It was to symbolize the Marine
mascot. I fell in love with that bull
dog from the start. Although he was not
real, he was treated as such. He was not
only a mascot, but he became a symbol of love and appreciation from my brother.
A stuffed animal
given to anyone can have different meaning.
There is a stuffed animal from an amusement park given to a girlfriend,
etc. etc. Here is a list could go on and
on. But in my case, it was a stuffed
animal sent to me from someone in a war.
I named the dog. I gave him a
name that I would always remember. And
what ever happened to my dog of which I named Sergeant Phooey? I carried him in all my moves of apartments,
and eventual buying a home. And to this
day, I am puzzled to whatever happened to him.
He suffered wear and tear from so much love given. I had other stuffed animals that met the same
demise. As I had children, they were
given chores. And I believed that one
clean-up day while I was at work, they all got tossed in the garbage. It was a sad ending to a treasured item that
carried so much sentimental value. But I
am reminded of the fact that he was only a material item. He in all reality can be replaced. But the memory of the expression of love he
brought can’t. And it is that which
remains with me today. I gave him a name
that I will always remember………Sergeant Phooey!